which hurts more?

choice 1:

Breaking up because of a 3rd party

choice 2:

Breaking up, still in love with each other, yet you can’t be together anymore.

Letting go is the hardest part when you’ve gotten used to a person being beside you whether you need him/her or not. You can’t imagine life without him/her. Yet you still have to accept the fact that you have to move on with your life without that person.

You love each other but you both know that the two of you are not ready for a commitment just yet. You’re both young and should be out there to enjoy life. At your age, why should you get serious with things such as love?

……

One of you gave everything to make the relationship work, forgetting to love herself in the process. She gave up her happiness just to make you happy. A typical martyr.

You on the other hand do everything you want to do. Bisyo, babae.. Lahat. You didn’t even consider what she might feel when you do all those stupid things you know will hurt her.

Yet, she did not give up on you. She hoped against all hopes that you would change your old ways and be a better man one of these days. You admitted that you’re not ready to change just yet. You still want to enjoy your life.

She accepted your decision to stick with your old ways and convinced herself that you’re young and nagpapakasaya ka lang.

…….

Some things aren’t meant. That’s just how life is. you won’t get everything you want.